<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel><title>Comments on: What Am I to My Boyfriend Now? What Happened to Us?</title> <atom:link href="http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/</link> <description>Learning to Play the Violin is Fun and Rewarding!</description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 19:07:29 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>By: cookie is yummy</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11505</link> <dc:creator>cookie is yummy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 09:56:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11505</guid> <description>everything that you told us. tell him.  explain to him that you need more passion.  to get a strong healthy relationship, the two should talk things out when something is bothering them.  you know he loves you alot and vice versa so that&#039;s set.  Since valentines coming up...try to spice things up too</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>everything that you told us. tell him.  explain to him that you need more passion.  to get a strong healthy relationship, the two should talk things out when something is bothering them.  you know he loves you alot and vice versa so that&#8217;s set.  Since valentines coming up&#8230;try to spice things up too</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: LaGail R</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11504</link> <dc:creator>LaGail R</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 09:09:28 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11504</guid> <description>Be honest with him about it.  It is not working for you.  It seems that he is taking you for granted and he is not aware of the efforts that you have exerted to get the spark back.  You have to have some &quot;us&quot; time and you can&#039;t plan it alone.  It does take some effort on his part also,</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Be honest with him about it.  It is not working for you.  It seems that he is taking you for granted and he is not aware of the efforts that you have exerted to get the spark back.  You have to have some &#8220;us&#8221; time and you can&#8217;t plan it alone.  It does take some effort on his part also,</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Alex</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11503</link> <dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 08:48:51 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11503</guid> <description>I really think you should talk to him about this!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really think you should talk to him about this!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ryan C</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11502</link> <dc:creator>Ryan C</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 07:53:40 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11502</guid> <description>Hmmm...he probably thinks of the love you shared as factual, and he no longer has to express it, and he probably thinks that you have accepted it, so you don&#039;t have to be reassured. He needs to make time for you, and if he loves you, and he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, then he should be lovey more often. You guys are now living together, do you cuddle? Cuddle and talk more often, to him it will be kinda gay, but he needs to realize that being a &quot;Man&quot; dosent mean that you are emotionless, and don&#039;t express anything, or say what is on your mind. Being a true man means being there for your woman, talking about things and letting her know how you feel, while at the same time being respectfull and supportive and loving. It&#039;s not hard, I do it, perfectly straight, I&#039;m sick of proving myself to the other guys and trying to be a stone, I hate it.Talk to him about this issue, even have him read this question, let him know how you feel and have him share his feelings. Communicate a little more.All I got! Good Luck, sorry to hear that things have changed =\ Ryan</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm&#8230;he probably thinks of the love you shared as factual, and he no longer has to express it, and he probably thinks that you have accepted it, so you don&#8217;t have to be reassured. He needs to make time for you, and if he loves you, and he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, then he should be lovey more often. You guys are now living together, do you cuddle? Cuddle and talk more often, to him it will be kinda gay, but he needs to realize that being a &#8220;Man&#8221; dosent mean that you are emotionless, and don&#8217;t express anything, or say what is on your mind. Being a true man means being there for your woman, talking about things and letting her know how you feel, while at the same time being respectfull and supportive and loving. It&#8217;s not hard, I do it, perfectly straight, I&#8217;m sick of proving myself to the other guys and trying to be a stone, I hate it.</p><p>Talk to him about this issue, even have him read this question, let him know how you feel and have him share his feelings. Communicate a little more.</p><p>All I got! Good Luck, sorry to hear that things have changed =\<br /> Ryan</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: italygrl1</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11501</link> <dc:creator>italygrl1</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 07:08:11 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11501</guid> <description>Well i think maybe when you 2 are in bed you need to have a long talk and let him know how you feel.He def still sounds like he really loves and cares about you.All you need to do it talk it out.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well i think maybe when you 2 are in bed you need to have a long talk and let him know how you feel.He def still sounds like he really loves and cares about you.All you need to do it talk it out.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Nate</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11500</link> <dc:creator>Nate</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 06:26:38 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11500</guid> <description>I think the best way to solve this problem is to tell him all this that is on your mind. Guys don&#039;t pick up on hints, we have to be told</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the best way to solve this problem is to tell him all this that is on your mind.<br /> Guys don&#8217;t pick up on hints, we have to be told</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: jcire17</title><link>http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11499</link> <dc:creator>jcire17</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 05:40:52 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://lessons-for-violin.com/32642/what-am-i-to-my-boyfriend-now-what-happened-to-us/#comment-11499</guid> <description>relationships can get stale and you just have to work on them</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>relationships can get stale and you just have to work on them</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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